Skip to main content

Coping in an abusive relationship without financial aide.

Leaving an abusive relationship is the first thing coming to mind after an incident. No one wants to live in a scary and abusive relationship and no one wants to love a love less life.

But leaving might be hard especially when the assaulted party does not have financial support or if children are involved and there is no financial source to care for children.

                            help guide.org

In such cases this lack of finance frustrates affected party and leaves one with no choice than to sit and accept whatever treatment is served.

Abusive relationship is one that should not be experienced or endured by both men and women. And when children are involved, it is even more bad because children learn things easily and hence might grow up doing same.

Below are some measures which should be taken if found in an abusive relationship.


1. Be Calm

It is important to be calm no matter how bad or how heating it is. Also try and avoid getting beaten again by keeping quite when argument is heated. A wise man will always keep shut even if so much is left to be said in such situations. 

Keeping calm helps keep situation calm and less heated. Keeping calm also helps one closely observe and think calmly about what has happened. This particular step is needed during an argument or if another argument comes up. Keeping calm doesn't mean one is dumb, it simply means one is being preventive.

2. Quiet Time

Quiet time is next important step to take after getting experiencing physical abuse. It is essential to observe a quiet time which involves being alone for some time to think about whatever has happened and think about how to handle it and finding a lasting solution to it so as it doesn't happen again.

3. Talking Time

A moment of deep conversation between both parties should be observed after such incident. It is important because it helps one pour out mind and express oneself.

However, this stage can be possible only if both parties are willing to have a peaceful conversation. 

While conversating, it is important to be mindful of use of words. It is best to avoid using abusive or aggressive words as it might aggraviate anger and make talking time a war time again.

4. Conversation about Children's Mental Health ( If Any )

It is important to talk about the children and their mental health. This is so because watching domestic abuse live at home makes them volnurable, less confident, low self esteem, and believe whatever it is happening at home is right. Abusive partners need to learn and acknowledge bad effect of abuse on mental health of children, hence there is a need to put a stop to it.

5. Plan Ahead to Leave

Bitter truth is, hitting of one's partner is an attitude. It takes only grace of God for there to be a permanent change. By so doing, it is important to plan ahead because such things could happen again.

Mostimes, abuse occurs when least expected which is why it meets one in shock. And best decision which could be taken is leaving silently. However if case be there is no financial aide, one needs to plan ahead so as if such happens again, it won't meet one in Surprise and one can leave silently before it is too late.

Conclusion

An abusive partner might only have a temporary change because beating a partner is an habit and only God can Intervene and change such person's mindset. Which is why it is good for a woman to be independent. 




Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Do you have a phone? Here is how to Start making Millions on Fiverr and other platforms.

This is going to be a long and fruitful ride. Learn how to make money today, get your paper and pen and read all through to the end. Last Updated on September 3, 2021 by Adam Enfroy If you’re like me, when you join  affiliate program  your primary goal is to make commissions by recommending products so that you wake up in the morning to something like this: Get out of bed and see that you have $957.60 in your bank account from a single affiliate sale. If you want to learn  how to start a blog  and take part in this market projected to hit  $6.8 billion  in 2020, keep reading. This list includes affiliate programs to join in standard categories like   web hosting, website builders, VPNs, travel, finance, fashion, beauty, and fitness. Additionally, it includes emerging verticals like  sports, music, video games, cryptocurrency, and marijuana/CBD oil. If you don’t have a website yet to make money with  affiliate marketing , I recomme...
Post a Comment
Read more

10 Healthy Advantages of Eating Egg

Almost everyone loves eating eggs and luckily eggs could be prepared and eaten in different ways but do you also know that eggs have good body building properties. Well below are the lists of what an egg can do to the body. 1. Egg have less calories, and is filling therefore aides in weightless. Regular Intake of Eggs promotes weightless. 2. Egg may reduce the risk of stroke and Heart disease. However this does not apply to diabetics.  3. Eggs from hens raised on pasture and/or fed omega-3 enriched feeds tend to be much higher in omega 3 fatty acids. 4. One of the consequences of aging is that eyesight tends to get worse. 5. Egg yolk contains some nutrients that help eye sight. Lutein and Zeaxanthin nutrients found on eggs help reduce risk factors of developing cataracts and macular degeneration, two common eye disorders. 
3 comments
Read more

This is what you should do if you are battling Depression

Depression can be exhausting sometimes. It comes and goes, but within a short period of time it comes back again and always takes a big toll on ones mental health. Depression obviously causes more harm than good to a depressed individual.                image : health.harvard.edu Now if you're battling Depression then this is for you. Kindly read this to the end and trust me, you will feel better right after. Now there might be two types of depressed individual. 1. The Lonely And Depressed individual This kind of depressed individual is the kind who is always alone, no friends, shuts the world out, refuse to speak to anyone about anything and refuse to let people into their lives. 2. The Social and Depressed individual This kind of Depressed individual is the kind who is the life of the party, the happiest individual in the group, the best of friends but yet is secretly battling Depression and refuses to open up to...
Post a Comment
Read more