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Coping in an abusive relationship without financial aide.

Leaving an abusive relationship is the first thing coming to mind after an incident. No one wants to live in a scary and abusive relationship and no one wants to love a love less life. But leaving might be hard especially when the assaulted party does not have financial support or if children are involved and there is no financial source to care for children.                             help guide.org In such cases this lack of finance frustrates affected party and leaves one with no choice than to sit and accept whatever treatment is served. Abusive relationship is one that should not be experienced or endured by both men and women. And when children are involved, it is even more bad because children learn things easily and hence might grow up doing same. Below are some measures which should be taken if found in an abusive relationship. 1. Be Calm It is important to be calm n...

Calming a cry baby and coping

As much as the love is immense babies can be hard to soothe sometimes because the cause of constant cries might be unknown sometimes especially if all that needs to be done is done but can't just stop crying. 1. Rock little baby in baby carrier and incorporate the "shoosh" sound. Rocking little baby in a carrier while shooshing over and over again in the ear is a good way to stop baby from crying and is also a good way to put to sleep. Research  shows that a calming response is triggered in an infant's brain when being carried or rocked, causing baby's heart rate to slow and muscles to become more relaxed," says Kristie Rivers, M.D., a pediatrician in Fort Lauderdale.  At the same time, the shoosh sound creates a repetitive distraction for baby to focus on instead of crying. 2. Put Out Lights This works because babies can easily become overstimulated with all noise and lights of everyday life. "After all, newbor...